Straight and Curly 96: How to be more confident

Confidence – it’s such a tricksy beast. Is it a case of either you’ve got it or you don’t? Carly and I aren’t sure because we’re both naturally confident people – but we’ve had our run-ins with a lack of it too.

Either way, neither of us a big fan of the whole ‘fake it till you make it’ thing when it comes to confidence so instead we cover the following topics in our quest to help you find yours:

  • Therapy
  • Seeking connection
  • Checking for bigger issues
  • Physical challenges
  • Helping others
  • Competency
  • Asking for feedback
  • Getting over yourself
  • Fixing the things you don’t like about yourself
  • The importance of confidence in women’s careers


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